My Friends is not only my friends, they are my family too.

 She's Ma. Cristine Caceres, She's my best friend. She never leaves me even I broke a lot of promise. She's my favorite enemy cause we fight a lot of times but in the end, we are still best friend. I hate it when someone calls or treat her like  "Best friend" I want that I'm her only best friend she can be friends with anyone but I don't want that she treats them like a best friend. I want to thank her because even if I have a lot of chance that I waste she's still here as my Best friend. Were not enrolled with the same school but still we hang out. At first, I hate her because when you look at her she looks like a monster until I know her more, yeah she's like a monster when she is mad but when I'm with her I'm happy because when you with her you gonna forget all your problem cause she's like a clown very funny. I'm capable with her attitude I don't care if they hate her but still, she's my Best friend and I'm proud of it. She's "simple but beautiful", she hates makeup but she loves food, She eats a lot of foods but still, she's thin person. I have a lot of friends but I can tell that she is the best because  I learned a lot of things with her I learned to 'say sorry', to do an effort, to be humble and to care for someone. I don't want to lose our friendship. I want to travel with someday and I want do a friendship goals only with her. She one of my inspiration. Nothing to tell I'm so proud that she's my best friend Forever and ever, I love and I trust her more than anything.

                                                            They are my friends when I was Grade 7 in Carlos P. Garcia Highschool. They are Dannica Guara, Alyanna Leona, Janel Madeja, Joshua Jabez Sarmiento, Christian Badar and other but I don't have pictures with others. Dannica and Alyanna are the closest to me because I treat them like my own siblings. Both of them bond every vacation since we far from each other. I really miss them. I wish that this Christmas Vacation we hang out. Even if we are not enrolled in the same school we still have communication. They change me, From worst to better that's why I proud to present them as my Friends.


     

I consider them as my Friend too. Marjorie, Jonnabelle, Nikkie, Racel, Cherwin and my Classmates when I was Grade 10, even our Adviser. I spent a lot of time with them before, I really proud that I have a classmate like them before, because you never feel that you are alone when you are with them. I really miss the time that we spent our time just to bond. We still have communication even were not classmates anymore.

To all my Friends especially my Best Friend, I really proud that I finally I found a true friend/best friend like them. I hope that they are always safe. Just PM me when you have a problem I will always here for all of you. I LOVE YOU ALL. Take care always and don't forget to pray :)  THAT"S ALL. 

Hello, I'm Christine Joyce Fernandez Magote and I would like to share my story so, let's start. I am 16 years old this coming December and I was born in Bacoor Cavite. When I was young my Grandparents is the one who cared for me because my eldest sister is in the hospital for some reason, my "Kuya" and my "Ate" care for my eldest sister in the hospital while my parents have their own work to provide our needs. Based on my Grandparents I cry when my Lolo care for other babies. I jealous easily even in my Friends.

I love playing guitar because it reminds me some memories that I never forget, I am simple but my life full of "Dream" because I have a lot of dreams, I want to travel around the world someday, I want to see Avril Lavigne, I want my Grandparents proud with me, I want to be successful woman someday and I want to finish my study that was one of my dreams that I want to achieve.

I hate it when someone sends me the "Winking Face with Tongue out" you know Nakakaasar. I hate ketchup or any kind of things that look like a blood because I scare about it. I hate to ride with "Escalator" and I hate to hear thunder and lightning because I scare, I cry and I don't know what to do. I love to see cute puppies but I hate dogs, I'm scared.

Someone told me that I am lucky, why? because I have whatever I want because my Parents provide me everything but I don't want a lot of things, I need time, Time that I never get. I feel jealous when I saw a child who closes to their Parent. I admit that I fail sometimes and I do a lot of wrongs but it doesn't mean that I am bad. I remember that when I was grade 7 since my Grandfather died so my Parents decided to go to Manila to care to my Lola and I enrolled also in one of the schools in Manila. I do whatever I want because my Lola supports me, I get a higher grade. I have a lot of friend in Manila because they are all close to my Lola until my Lola need to go to Canada that why I transfer again in Laguna. I feel sad cause I have a lot of memories that I build with them, every Weekends we hang out.So I transfer, in first I need to adjust a lot, I found a friend until Grade 10 they still my friends but my Mom notice that I change, Yah I change. I don’t care about my grades. I never talk to my Parents. But not now because my friend talks to me about my wrong. I admit that so I say sorry to my Parents.

"To see is to Believe" I love that quotes because I never believe in someone or something instead I saw that. I chose to study in STI because of curiosity. I’m simple, I can be your Friends, I love my Lolo that’s why I’m immature sometimes because I capable that someone cares for me, someone that I never leave me when I’m alone but now I know he is happy with God. That’s all.

Sigmund Freud

SIGMUND FREUD
INFANTILE SEXUALITY

            There was a Philosopher who known as “the father of psychoanalysis” He is Sigmund Freud a medical doctor so he decides to make a philosophy about infantile Sexuality that he describes the five stage of the child who involved in that. He also knew as one of the 20th century's most influential thinkers.  He has many work but I discuss the Infantile Sexuality.

Sigmund Freud was born the Austrian town of Freiberg on May 6, 1856.  Since he was a Medical doctor he studies the infantile sexuality because of his patient that suffer from hysteria. He articulated and refined the concepts of the unconscious, infantile sexuality and repression, and he proposed a tripartite account of the mind’s structure all as part of a radically new conceptual and therapeutic frame of reference for the understanding of human psychological development and the treatment of abnormal mental conditions. He received his medical degree in 1881 and has become engaged to be married in 1882.  After a life of remarkable vigor and creative productivity, he died of cancer while exiled in England in 1939.

For Freud Infantile sexuality is if this had its origins in, and was a generalization of, Breuer’s earlier discovery that traumatic childhood events could have devastating negative effects upon the adult individual, and took the form of the general thesis that early childhood sexual experiences were the crucial factors in the determination of the adult personality. It means if someone experience a sex earlier then it will affect to his/her childhood events maybe they will always look for a sex in a younger age because they experience it earlier but if she got a pregnant maybe her baby can affect because she is not ready for that in a younger age. Freud accordingly terms this the "oral" stage of development. This is followed by a stage in which the locus of pleasure or energy release is the anus, particularly in the act of defecation, and this is accordingly termed the ‘anal’ stage. Then the young child develops an interest in its sexual organs as a site of pleasure (the "phallic" stage), and develops a deep sexual attraction for the parent of the opposite sex, and a hatred of the parent of the same sex (the "Oedipus complex"). According to him there are five (5) psychosexual stages, first is the Oral Stage (Birth to 18 months). In Oral stage the child focused on talking or oral pleasure a little or too much gratification can result in an Oral Fixation or Oral Personality which is evidenced by a preoccupation with oral activities. This type of personality may have a stronger tendency to smoke, drink alcohol, over eat, or bite his or her nails. The second stage is the Anal Stage (18 months to three years). In this age the focus of this stage is the happiness of the child that can eliminate or retaining the faeces that they get through society pressure. But because of their parents the child need to learn to control anal stimulation that terms of personality after effects of anal fixation during this stage can result in an obsession with cleanliness, perfection and control but the opposite of this is they become messy and disorganized. The third stage is the Phallic Stage (ages three to six). In this stage the pleasure zone switches to the genitals, Freud believe that during this stage the boy develop his unconscious sexual desire for his mother that because of this they have a competition between his father. In this group of feeling it is also known as Oedipus Complex where the child accidentally killed his father then he was married to his mother. The next stage is the Latency Stage (age six to puberty) During this age the sexual remains repressed and the child still interact and play mostly with same sex peers. The last stage is the Genital Stage (puberty on). This is the final stage where the psychosexual development begins at the start of puberty when sexual urges are once again awakened.

In the whole of stage Freud believed, is the sequence or progression implicit in normal human development, and it is to be observed that at the infant level the instinctual attempts to satisfy the pleasure drive are frequently checked by parental control and social coercion. The developmental process, then, is for the child essentially a movement through a series of conflicts, the successful resolution of which is crucial to adult mental health. Play away from home it is a best example of idioms that means to have sex with someone who is not your usual partner. You will be unfaithful because whoever you want to have a sex you do even you didn’t usual partner. For example she stuck on her decision to divorce because she discovered her husband playing away from home. It means she stuck to the decision to divorce with his partner because she discovered that her husband is unfaithful to her.

For me based on what I learn Sigmund Freud want us to be aware of that because he believe that during we grow up there will a consequences to develop our body and he explain the five stage that will help us to know what he really want to us. I think his work is still exists because while I reading I realize the stage of the child and how will affect to the child the experience he experience. He also give an example to get what his point is. I learn a lot of his philosophy because I get what his point and since he was a medical doctor so he know the best for us. Infantile Sexuality have stages according on what I learn and in every stages have their own development it means the stages that he said is all about human development.